‘Some women have a problem with me giving this advice because of the job
I used to do but I’ve dated around 900 men and my knowledge comes from
experience,’ says Rebecca. ‘I know what I’m doing is of value – I just
want to help people stay in relationships.’
‘Some are not confident about communicating with their other half.
They think that if they tell her they want more s*x, she’ll be upset.
‘Some don’t want to leave, as they love their wife, but they need
more intimacy. By seeing an escort, they’re just trying to find a way to
stay with the woman they love.’
Although Rebecca does not condone cheating, in some instances she thinks it can be justified.
‘I want to challenge women’s point of view. I want women to read the
stories in my book and think – I quite like this guy and understand
where he’s coming from.’
One man who has anonymously contributed to Rebecca’s book is living with a wife who suffers from severe manic depression.
He doesn’t want to leave because he would have to take the children
and his wife would be broken-hearted, but he still craves intimacy with a
woman and has therefore decided to pay escorts for s*x and
companionship.
‘You can’t help but feel for him,’ Rebecca says.
‘Cheating is not black and white. There are some circumstances where
people don’t have any other options. My book will be really valuable
insight into how men are thinking.’
It has now been three years since Rebecca worked as an escort and,
although she sometimes misses the quick cash, her life has moved on. At
the same time as writing her book on infidelity, she is putting together
a book of s*x tips, working as a media ‘sexpert’ and running a dating
coach service, charging men for Skype sessions in which she guides them
through the minefields of flirting, dating and relationships using her
training as an NLP Master Practitioner.
No comments:
Post a Comment